guided by your beauty, wisdom and generosity.

Jean,

Having read some of these entries maybe there should be a secondary blog attached to this one called, “drinking with Jean.” You may recall when you first began teaching classes at MSU and I, along with other doctoral students at the time (Cheryl, Anne, Amena, Ron and sometimes Tracy) learned from you about timely issues in school psychology research and child psychotherapy. Your passion for connecting the classroom to the real-world led you to hold one of our class sessions at the Willow Teen Plaza in a pretty rough neighborhood in Lansing, so we could think about how to meld the agendas of preventive teen health care, mental health services and schools while also being exposed to a neighborhood context some students had been generally unfamiliar with. Fortunately all our automobiles were still in the parking lot after class, and I fondly remember continuing our deep scholastic inquiry over pizza and a carafe (maybe 2) of red wine at Deluca’s, and getting to know you a little more. I thank you for making learning a challenging experience, but one that is fun too!

I remember thinking at the time how lucky I and other students are to have such a knowledgeable professor; one who cared about making a real difference in the world; one who genuinely cared about her student’s learning and the potential they held to take what you had taught them, and do some good things with it in the real world of hardship, pain and suffering that psychologists often confront in their professional practices.

Your teaching and modeling clearly emulated to me that while it is important to keep good boundaries between one’s personal life and the work of a psychologist, it is also extremely important to do work that is true to your self and who you are; and to love the work you do, so that others may benefit from your diligence, goodness and passion.

I very much admire your multiple illustrations of the tremendous potential genuine human relationships provide to further human development. I have come to know this not only from your research showing how teachers can positively impact tough situations and challenging kids, but also from the generous support, guidance and encouragement you have provided to me personally any time I have ever sought this out from you. I’m also remembering a very impressive presentation you made for faculty and staff at the MSU Virtual University office that I attended, demonstrating how you incorporated dynamic and engaging small group activities into one of your on-line courses. It occurs to me here on this blog, that your work, and who you are continues to blossom like the flowers in your picture. You truly are the professor whose door has always been open to those who needed you,…and you have been there for so many…like a rock!

Speaking of rocks, in reference to one of his many masterpiece carvings Michelangelo once said, “I saw the angel in the marble and carved until I set him free.” To me Jean, I read this quote and I think of you, all your work, all of your connections to others that this blog is a testament to, and how many angels you have sent off to spread some goodness around here, guided by your beauty, wisdom and generosity. I thank you for all of your goodness, insights and support, and most importantly for bringing who you are to the work you do, even under the most difficult of circumstances that you have had to endure.

I hope to make it over to your house very soon, when it is convenient for you and your family…I’ve got this annoying torture called “comps” to contend with for the remainder of this week (I think you are familiar with this concept). I hope we can sip some red wine together soon, to remember Deluca’s and all the good times.

Warmest Regards,

John Sougstad, admirer and lifelong student (literally and figuratively)